Patterns
I was participating in her 12 days Xmas Challange which was the first online course I've ever paid for. I wanted to be a part of it to learn more about Tantra and Yoni egg practices. I've chose this course because it was an affordable price for me, as it was just a 12 day course and Charlena seemed so nice through her Instagram page. All in all, it turned out to the first scam experience I've ever had.
At the first days she uploaded the material, but then she started to miss out some days. We supposed to get videos or audios for meditation every day, then it took her longer to upload them. At day 9 she STOPPED uploading any of it all. Then she started to came up with excuses. First, i was feeling sorry for her and i was trying to understand her and wait until she will be in a better place to continue with the course. Also the other women in the group were really patient and understanding. She said she has to move back to London and that she got really sick, she can barely talk or breathe trough her nose. Then she uploaded a video of herself apologising and to show us how sick she was. I wasn't really convinced that she was so sick she can't even upload the material...Then she said she has the other 3 audios ready she just can't upload them because she found out that one of her ex-boyfriend hacked her profile!!!! She was constantly putting responsibility on everyone else but her.
Sometimes she was saying that she is taking full responsibility for how the course ended up and that she loves us all so much but these were just poor sentences written down without any real emotion, empathy or regret behind them. I know this now, because then she put me in her next course, to Here She Comes, for free as an apology. But she continued to do EXACTLY THE SAME as she did in the fist course. She was trying to buy time and make people trust her and feel sorry for her but then she never completed her promises. At the Xmas group she even had the idea that as an apology she will upload a new 10 extra days meditation but she never did.
In Here She Comes she said she will send us the link for free to her Tantric Lingam Massage course, but she never sent them to me. I know only about one girl who got it (so yes, the material exists, she was just too ignorant or lazy to send it to the other girls she promised.)
When the same pattern started in Here She Comes, i was not even surprised because i had experienced it before. But poor other girls, who payed A LOT for a course which was not even prepared or well-put together. She uploaded the first 3 week content and then she stopped. It supposed to be 7 weeks+ an extra Yoni egg practice (we never got anything about the subject from her).
She said in a video that she is so sorry and she will find a solution for this. These types of videos were frightfully similar to the ones in the first course. Her behaviour was exactly the same. Now I know from the stories of other people that she betrayed a lot of her friends too, not just her customers. It seems to me that she learned how to manipulate people with her nice words and play the victim role. I think she has a really big dark shadow and maybe a big trauma behind her actions. But please, even if you ever feel sorry for her, just DON'T BUY ANYTHING from her, ever. It's dangerous.
Now I know, that I can too fall into a trap of fake peoples showing their life on social media. It seems that even in spiritual communities it happens and with people i followed and felt sympathetic for a long time..I will be more careful from now on.
At the first days she uploaded the material, but then she started to miss out some days. We supposed to get videos or audios for meditation every day, then it took her longer to upload them. At day 9 she STOPPED uploading any of it all. Then she started to came up with excuses. First, i was feeling sorry for her and i was trying to understand her and wait until she will be in a better place to continue with the course. Also the other women in the group were really patient and understanding. She said she has to move back to London and that she got really sick, she can barely talk or breathe trough her nose. Then she uploaded a video of herself apologising and to show us how sick she was. I wasn't really convinced that she was so sick she can't even upload the material...Then she said she has the other 3 audios ready she just can't upload them because she found out that one of her ex-boyfriend hacked her profile!!!! She was constantly putting responsibility on everyone else but her.
Sometimes she was saying that she is taking full responsibility for how the course ended up and that she loves us all so much but these were just poor sentences written down without any real emotion, empathy or regret behind them. I know this now, because then she put me in her next course, to Here She Comes, for free as an apology. But she continued to do EXACTLY THE SAME as she did in the fist course. She was trying to buy time and make people trust her and feel sorry for her but then she never completed her promises. At the Xmas group she even had the idea that as an apology she will upload a new 10 extra days meditation but she never did.
In Here She Comes she said she will send us the link for free to her Tantric Lingam Massage course, but she never sent them to me. I know only about one girl who got it (so yes, the material exists, she was just too ignorant or lazy to send it to the other girls she promised.)
When the same pattern started in Here She Comes, i was not even surprised because i had experienced it before. But poor other girls, who payed A LOT for a course which was not even prepared or well-put together. She uploaded the first 3 week content and then she stopped. It supposed to be 7 weeks+ an extra Yoni egg practice (we never got anything about the subject from her).
She said in a video that she is so sorry and she will find a solution for this. These types of videos were frightfully similar to the ones in the first course. Her behaviour was exactly the same. Now I know from the stories of other people that she betrayed a lot of her friends too, not just her customers. It seems to me that she learned how to manipulate people with her nice words and play the victim role. I think she has a really big dark shadow and maybe a big trauma behind her actions. But please, even if you ever feel sorry for her, just DON'T BUY ANYTHING from her, ever. It's dangerous.
Now I know, that I can too fall into a trap of fake peoples showing their life on social media. It seems that even in spiritual communities it happens and with people i followed and felt sympathetic for a long time..I will be more careful from now on.
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